#1120: The Creepy Guy In The Friend Group, Revisited: Four More Geek Social Fallacies

Content note: After the jump I mention Rape Threats Dudes Have Sent Me for saying what I think about creepy dudes. Dear Captain, Over the past several years I've drifted to the periphery of a friend group where one member is a sexist creep. I immediately found him slimy and pushy and off-putting upon meeting … Continue reading #1120: The Creepy Guy In The Friend Group, Revisited: Four More Geek Social Fallacies

#1020: “Is this relationship doomed or do I just need to put in more work?”

Hiya Cap’n! I’ve been dating my boyfriend for just over three years, and after a stint of long-distance, the two of us have recently moved in together. Captain, it’s not going well. Most of the ways it’s not going well are problems on my end, though, and they’re all pretty minor, falling into the category … Continue reading #1020: “Is this relationship doomed or do I just need to put in more work?”