#520: Getting your stuff back from a Darth Vader ex

Dear Captain & Co., I’m in a wonderful relationship, but we’ve got a Darth Vader ex-girlfriend lurking on the sidelines. When we first started dating she behaved horribly: showing up on his lawn screaming suicide threats when she found out I was over, harassing him for months, hacking his email to get my phone number … Continue reading #520: Getting your stuff back from a Darth Vader ex

#491: A dream job is taking me back to the city I left 10 years ago to escape my abusive family. How can I keep myself safe?

Oh Captain, my Captain I broke contact with my family and moved across country from them ten years ago. It was a decision made by several years of mixed bag abuse. My dad is a creepy stalker who still haven't given up and the police have been involved more than once. I have no hope … Continue reading #491: A dream job is taking me back to the city I left 10 years ago to escape my abusive family. How can I keep myself safe?

Question #165: How do I deal with my coworker and his toxic, jealous wife?

Dear Captain, As a single woman working in a male dominated field, I do run into some weird situations. But I've never been confronted by a jealous wife before. A year ago I relocated to a city about an hour's drive from home so that I could be closer to my new job. A few … Continue reading Question #165: How do I deal with my coworker and his toxic, jealous wife?