#744: Informing someone you’re not talking to anymore about STI risks

Dear Captain & Army, About a month ago, I finally broke things off with a long-term Darth Vader ex I'll call Joe. We officially broke up last year, but spent this summer falling in love all over again, though we kept it completely secret. However, when Joe finally admitted to cheating on me with a … Continue reading #744: Informing someone you’re not talking to anymore about STI risks

#484: “How do I minimize embarrassment when telling a partner that I have a body and a past?”

Hello Captain and Company! About a year and a half ago I had my primary outbreak of genital herpes. It was excruciating, both physically and emotionally, but I'm finally starting to pick up the pieces and feel like myself again. I'm starting to feel like I maybe want to date again, finally (yay), but I'd … Continue reading #484: “How do I minimize embarrassment when telling a partner that I have a body and a past?”