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Dear Captain Awkward;

I have a question about sex. As in, how do I have it? More specifically, how do I have it with my husband?

We’ve been together 10+ years, we get along and have fun and love each other lots. But. We don’t have sex. We used to, when we started dating, we did it all the time. Then that faded, and though I think our relationship is stronger now than it was then, we also don’t have sex anymore.