Oh Captain, my Captain-- I was in a serious relationship with a man, let's call him Ethan, a few years ago while we were both in college. We met through our ROTC program. He was a very good guy, and a great boyfriend. I broke up with him around our one-year anniversary, because we rarely … Continue reading #184: Confusing dude is confusing. Should I reach out to him and tell him how I feel?