Hi Captain. I have a friend who has become obsessed with a man who has never even spoken to her (no, the "friend" is not me). She has spent hours and hours ruminating about this man, to the point that I am concerned how she has let this seriously affect her life. It happened like … Continue reading #185: My friend is obsessed with someone who barely knows she exists.
Hello Captain! I have been reading your blog and loving your smart, thoughtful advice. I was wondering if you could give me some help with my problem. This may be a bit of a 'my diamond shoes pinch' problem but I'd appreciate your advice because I'm tying myself up in knots. I am in a … Continue reading Reader question #51: I’m insecure about my girlfriend’s feelings for me.
Sometimes the only answer an advice columnist can give is "Dude, you are so fucked." Check out Dan Savage's Letter of the Day from yesterday. Amazing. Also, it's National Poetry Month! Here is Maggie Estep's great poem, "I am an emotional idiot." Emotional Idiot by Maggie Estep I'm an Emotional Idiot so get away from … Continue reading Dude, you are so fucked.