#185: My friend is obsessed with someone who barely knows she exists.

Hi Captain. I have a friend who has become obsessed with a man who has never even spoken to her (no, the "friend" is not me). She has spent hours and hours ruminating about this man, to the point that I am concerned how she has let this seriously affect her life. It happened like … Continue reading #185: My friend is obsessed with someone who barely knows she exists.

Reader question #51: I’m insecure about my girlfriend’s feelings for me.

Hello Captain! I have been reading your blog and loving your smart, thoughtful advice.  I was wondering if you could give me some help with my problem. This may be a bit of a 'my diamond shoes pinch' problem but I'd appreciate your advice because I'm tying myself up in knots.  I am in a … Continue reading Reader question #51: I’m insecure about my girlfriend’s feelings for me.