Everyone Is Gay just solved a full 20% of my inbox. You can have compassion for your friends, listen to them, give them room to vent and think out loud, be their sounding-boards and secret-keepers. But you don't have to do it endlessly. It doesn't have to form the basis of your friendship or the … Continue reading What do you do about chronic complaining?
Hi Captain. I have a friend who has become obsessed with a man who has never even spoken to her (no, the "friend" is not me). She has spent hours and hours ruminating about this man, to the point that I am concerned how she has let this seriously affect her life. It happened like … Continue reading #185: My friend is obsessed with someone who barely knows she exists.