Howdy, Captain. I am in a four-year relationship with a lovely man. We've weathered serious storms and worked through what could have been relationship-wrecking issues, thanks to being forgiving, talkative, and evolving people. We're easy-going, share humor and interests, and enjoy spending time together, and we've lived together for three years now. For about the … Continue reading #252: How can I help my boyfriend when he won’t ask for help?