Hi Captain! Low stakes question here regarding the delicate situation of my housemates' generally lovely parents. I live in a house with several people, including a couple with two kids who are also my landlords (the couple, not the kids). I've been here for five years and I love it! The situation is wonderful, the … Continue reading #1201: “I need to set some boundaries for my housemates’ parents when they visit.”
Hello! I'm struggling to find good ways to respond to my boyfriend when he tells me what I should or need to be doing. I'm in therapy to recover and get to a place where I think that I'm good enough & love and trust myself again (after years growing up having that constantly undermined), … Continue reading #687: My boyfriend won’t stop trying to fix me.
Howdy, Captain. I am in a four-year relationship with a lovely man. We've weathered serious storms and worked through what could have been relationship-wrecking issues, thanks to being forgiving, talkative, and evolving people. We're easy-going, share humor and interests, and enjoy spending time together, and we've lived together for three years now. For about the … Continue reading #252: How can I help my boyfriend when he won’t ask for help?