#520: Getting your stuff back from a Darth Vader ex

Dear Captain & Co., I’m in a wonderful relationship, but we’ve got a Darth Vader ex-girlfriend lurking on the sidelines. When we first started dating she behaved horribly: showing up on his lawn screaming suicide threats when she found out I was over, harassing him for months, hacking his email to get my phone number … Continue reading #520: Getting your stuff back from a Darth Vader ex

The art of “no,” continued: Saying no when you’ve already said yes.

A reader responded to yesterday's post with this story: ...I was sitting around at 3am reading blogs when some guy knocked on my window, since mine was the only light on in the street–he’d locked his keys in his car, and wanted to borrow my phone. Then when he couldn’t reach the person he called, … Continue reading The art of “no,” continued: Saying no when you’ve already said yes.