Tag: emotional abuse

#1277: “Abuse, agency, and the limits of advice.”

~ JenniferP

Behind a cut for mention of physical and emotional abuse of adult children by parents as well as some frustrations and victim-blaming attitudes that are common in friends and support networks of people who are embroiled in abusive situations. Abusers ruin everything, pretty much. Dear Captain Awkward, I (31, nb, he/him) have a friend who … Continue reading #1277: “Abuse, agency, and the limits of advice.”

#1222: “Love my family, hate my mean red-pilling brother who is always around.”

~ JenniferP

Behind a cut for emotional abuse, misogyny, and discussion of these things as specifically related to recent gun violence and the possibility thereof, which is not what the Letter Writer asked, but definitely something I saw in the question. I did a giant dump of cat photos for patrons if you need to click on … Continue reading #1222: “Love my family, hate my mean red-pilling brother who is always around.”

#1218: “Irritability and constant criticism in a marriage.”

~ JenniferP ~ 315 Comments

Dear Captain, My husband (he / him / his) is extremely smart and good in his job, has a close relationship with his sister, and good at figuring out mechanical challenges (e.g., setting up a new type of tent) patiently and thoroughly. But I can’t bear the constant criticism. He’s always miffed about something. It … Continue reading #1218: “Irritability and constant criticism in a marriage.”

London Meetup + #462: When is it time to cut off communication with abusive family?

~ JenniferP ~ 240 Comments

Reminder, monthly London meetup is tomorrow. Sorry for not posting this sooner, guys! It's been the week of 1000 meetings. Dear Awkward Army, London meetup this weekend, 23rd March!  All welcome. 11:00 am onwards, Leon restaurant, 36/38 Old Compton Street, London, W1D 4TT. The venue so far has worked out well, so I’m sticking with that.  … Continue reading London Meetup + #462: When is it time to cut off communication with abusive family?

#440: “It’s time to get out of my abusive home, but I am afraid to accept help.”

~ JenniferP ~ 193 Comments

Ahoy thar. Cliff notes time! Over the past four years, I: - dropped out of high school for Multiple Reasons - got a fantastic very-part-time clerical job which, although I don't **LOVE** it 24/7, has great co-workers and doesn't take up too much brainpower (which is good because I have a history of overloading myself … Continue reading #440: “It’s time to get out of my abusive home, but I am afraid to accept help.”

#329: My partner won’t set boundaries with his horrible family.

~ JenniferP ~ 327 Comments

Dear Captain Awkward, I'm in a wonderful, 5-1/2 year relationship with a great guy. It's not all sunshine and roses (what relationship is?) but we've built a solid, great thing based on mutual respect, and I'm 100% sure he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with/meld my DNA with in … Continue reading #329: My partner won’t set boundaries with his horrible family.

Question #167: My mom disowned me on Christmas day.

~ JenniferP ~ 36 Comments

I played hooky with Commander Logic yesterday, so no posts, sorry! If you've been wondering "Is Hot Doug's still delicious? Is the movie adaptation of Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy  a) enjoyable b) a clinic in the importance of lens choice and detail in production design c) a fucking masterpiece of acting in Gary Oldman's performance? … Continue reading Question #167: My mom disowned me on Christmas day.