#1254: “Does my micromanaging business partner / friend need to get a life, or have we mixed too much business with friend dynamics?”

Hi Captain! I (she/her/hers) am a business partner with Partner (also she/her/hers). We have been running a small business for a few years now. We had one employee who just retired, and we finally hired someone part time. We are equal owners in the company. We went to grad school together and I thought we … Continue reading #1254: “Does my micromanaging business partner / friend need to get a life, or have we mixed too much business with friend dynamics?”

#1189: “Fox News, Immigrant Family, and the F******* Wedding Invite List”

Dear Captain Awkward, I've met somebody lovely and we're getting married in the summer. (My pronouns: she/her, my fiancee's: they/them) I'm thrilled to celebrate with all my family and friends...except one person. My uncle has mainlined Fox News for longer than I've been alive and has selected me, his queer, liberal niece, as a prime … Continue reading #1189: “Fox News, Immigrant Family, and the F******* Wedding Invite List”

#1176: The limits of respecting one’s elders just ’cause they are elders.

Hello Captain, I've got a few older women in my life who keep talking to me like I'm one of their kids. It's either unsolicited advice or outright orders in a snotty tone. One of these women volunteers at the same place I do. She orders people around constantly, is generally rude and condescending, and … Continue reading #1176: The limits of respecting one’s elders just ’cause they are elders.

Small behaviors to leave in 2016: The Content-Free Interruption

So I'm dicking around online this morning, and a friend shared some theories about a show she's been watching (with spoilers amply warned for) and an invitation for friends who are also watching to discuss. Other people who watch the show weigh in and are happily trading theories and easter eggs and everything is fine … Continue reading Small behaviors to leave in 2016: The Content-Free Interruption

#860 “When does having faith become stupid?” and #861 “Neat Freak Babysitter”

Dear Captain Awkward, My boyfriend and me have been planning to find a place together for 6 months now. He’s an amazing guy, he’s smart, funny, he understands most of the things I say, I always felt like he was a very reliable person and I know him for 8 years now. We’ve only been … Continue reading #860 “When does having faith become stupid?” and #861 “Neat Freak Babysitter”