Don't let a side quest for understanding get in the way of doing - or demanding - care and kindness.
To avoid the trap of trying to satisfy a group member who can never be satisfied, think about what you owe everybody else.
Answers to unpublishable questions, like a New Year's cleanse for upsetting letters.
Feelings (jealousy, discomfort, biphobia) clean-up in Aisle 7.
Rae is back, restoring a sense of discovery and play to figuring out who the heck you are.