Maybe your avoidant parent will be so avoidant that he'll do what you want in order to avoid conflict.
Answers to unpublishable questions, like a New Year's cleanse for upsetting letters.
The problem with ultimatums is sometimes people take you up on them.
Weird family stuff AND art school? Welcome to my wheelhouse.
Somebody typed it into a search engine and ended up here. Challenge accepted!
You do not have to show up at unsafe parties even if it makes other people sad, this year or any year.
Your house, your rules, so spell them out from now on and give your son-in-law a chance to surprise you.
Content note/reminder that describing bigotry accurately sometimes includes examples. Followed by the usual reminders that boundaries are more about deciding what you will do than about what you can convince other people to do.
What to do when everyone you know is getting vaccinated, except for you? What about when you're the relatively fortunate person? Also, what about relatives who refuse to be immunized? Here are some thoughts about that.
Feelings (jealousy, discomfort, biphobia) clean-up in Aisle 7.