Just because you're judging yourself inside your head, it doesn't mean that other people are participating.
You can obviously write whatever you want about whoever you want. You cannot control how people will feel about it or what they'll do about it.
Your partner's ex, your partner's friend group, your partner's life choices are your partner's job to manage.
"Inside this lady are two bigots, one is capable of acting nice sometimes and the other is not, don't feed either of them with your time, sympathy, or attention."
Wear a seatbelt! Where's your helmet? Will there be parents there? Parenthood requires willingness to say no to lots of fun stuff in the name of safety, there's no time like the present to get started.
Soft rejections, mixing finances, and a primer for dealing with loaded questions.
How to plot the accumulated costs of "useless objects" vs. "pointless arguments" over time?
Two spouses wrote to me and I don't want to post the letters full of painful details but I also could not leave it alone.
What to do when everyone you know is getting vaccinated, except for you? What about when you're the relatively fortunate person? Also, what about relatives who refuse to be immunized? Here are some thoughts about that.
"Don't touch me" isn't complicated. You know who makes it complicated? CREEPS, THAT'S WHO.