Search strings, snap judgments. Comments are on, for a change!
"Tell me your phone number and exactly where you live so I can judge if you are a SERIOUS STUDENT." Yikes.
It is okay to enjoy slightly different vacationing rules than other people.
Death comes for us all, but we don't have to like it.
"False Spring" in Chicago, is that wedding bells I hear?
Don't let a side quest for understanding get in the way of doing - or demanding - care and kindness.
To avoid the trap of trying to satisfy a group member who can never be satisfied, think about what you owe everybody else.
"Oh, we just tell people my partner is dying for funsies, that way we can hear all about yoga, religion, and diets in excruciating detail, I love getting medical advice from non-doctors!"
If someone averages 36 hours between responses, what happens if you assume that their response time will be 36 hours?
It's okay if someone you strongly dislike gets an inkling that the feeling is mutual.