It Came From The Search Terms: November Has Come

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IrdI2iC-sYY It's time for the monthly ritual where I answer the questions that people typed into search engines to find this place. 1 "I have a crush on a guy who treats me badly." Crushes can be fun, but unlike what you've seen on Buffy The Vampire Slayer and every other show/movie/comic, love doesn't turn … Continue reading It Came From The Search Terms: November Has Come

#816 “A new relationship that should be great is complicated.”

Hi Captain, I've dug through your archives but haven't seen anything specifically on this topic--apologies if I've overlooked something--but I'm wondering what advice you have to give for partners who make the decision to work through a mistake and rebuild confidence in each other. Long story short: I've been dating my partner for a few … Continue reading #816 “A new relationship that should be great is complicated.”

#760 & 761: “Housemates: Can’t live with ’em, can’t fix ’em.”

Hurricane Joaquin...everybody ok so far? Be okay. Greetings, My wife (Carole) and I (Clark) have four children and share our home with a childless couple (John & Priscilla) who I met in college. We've done so for roughly two years now with surprisingly little friction. Recently John talked to me about how he's come to … Continue reading #760 & 761: “Housemates: Can’t live with ’em, can’t fix ’em.”