A guest post from S. Bear Bergman of Asking Bear about how to make new friends and find date partners. Bear will be answering questions live with the Captain on Sunday May 15, tix at this link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/asking-bear-with-special-guest-captain-awkward-tickets-326018549257
Both anxious and avoidant attachment styles respond badly to pressure and benefit from structure, or, "Mom, I can't be your on-call therapist."
"Tell me your phone number and exactly where you live so I can judge if you are a SERIOUS STUDENT." Yikes.
There are a lot of steps between "starting a farm" and "figuring out who gets it after we die." Content Warning for ableism.
It is okay to enjoy slightly different vacationing rules than other people.
Nobody loves separating the books and dishtowels, but when it's time, it's time.
"False Spring" in Chicago, is that wedding bells I hear?
Ultimatums are scary for a reason: Sometimes people force you to follow through on them.
When someone who can't say no and someone who won't take no for an answer become friends and form an awkward puzzle of dysfunction.
Don't let a side quest for understanding get in the way of doing - or demanding - care and kindness.