People* are in the mood for something with relatively low stakes, right? *Me, I'm People
The problem with informal agreements.
When in doubt, remove pressure and think of learning a new skill as "practice." Content Note: Brief mention of kink in the question. If you're a child and/or the concept of D/s relationships irks you, skip this one.
Search strings, snap judgments. Comments are on, for a change!
In which the Party Planning Committee consists of one exhausted pregnant lady trying to please everyone.
Both anxious and avoidant attachment styles respond badly to pressure and benefit from structure, or, "Mom, I can't be your on-call therapist."
"Tell me your phone number and exactly where you live so I can judge if you are a SERIOUS STUDENT." Yikes.
Come see S. Bear Bergman and me answer advice questions in real time. May 15, 8 pm Eastern, 7pm Central, live from the Internet. Ticket links and more info in post.
How to get over stage fright and interpersonal awkwardness.
There are a lot of steps between "starting a farm" and "figuring out who gets it after we die." Content Warning for ableism.