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#481: My parents acquired a friend for me (with a gross, moldy congealed side of stalking).

Dear Captain Awkward, My problem boils down to this: can I say no, or do I have to be polite?  I’m not a social person. I don’t have friends at the moment. The reasons for that are many –mostly boiling down to

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Posted in Families, Friendship, Geek Social Fallacies, manipulation, Manners, Parents, Personal Safety, Reader Questions, rejection, saying no, Social Interactions, the gift of fear

#480: Post-breakup friend custody with a gross congealed moldy side of stalking

Hi Captain! I’m having a bit of a boundary issue. About six months ago, I ended a one-year relationship that had become deeply dysfunctional. My boyfriend at the time was very depressed, was using drugs, and was by turns distant

Posted in Abuse, Darth Vader Boyfriend, Dating, Friendship, manipulation, Personal Safety, Reader Questions, saying no, Social Interactions, Social Media, the gift of fear

#479: Trying to be more social when you have serious dietary restrictions

Dear Captain, I’m in a very happy long term relationship. The biggest problem we face is we’re both introverts, and have some social anxiety along with it. It’s hard to make friends, but we’re trying. We’re very geeky, so we’re

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#478: RSVP/Invitation Etiquette

Cap’n!  I have a question about RSVP etiquette and other people’s family drama. Two other friends (A and B) and I are throwing a baby shower for a third friend (C). We’re inviting friends and any of C’s extended family

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#475: How do I help my lonely husband make some friends? and #476: Tired of the same old college scene

Dear Captain Awkward, Over the last four years, my husband and I have narrowed our social circle to where we only have a few friends who we see regularly, most of whom were initially my friends rather than his. But

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#468 and #469: “Hey, knock it off”, or, Constructive Conflict, Continued.

Jolly’s great comment to Monday’s post is going to be very relevant to these seemingly very different questions: “You also don’t necessarily have to bring some of these things up in one big confrontation about The Whole Pattern Of Her

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Posted in Friendship, Geek Social Fallacies, How Not To Be, how to say no, manipulation, Manners, Overthinking It, Reader Questions, rejection, Relationships, Roommates, saying no, Social Interactions

#448: How do I accept compliments?

2/11/13, 7:30 pm, comments on this thread are now closed.   Dear Captain Awkward: How do you non-awkwardly handle compliments and being thanked? I’ve always hated being praised or thanked, even as a kid. I never know what to say.

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#446: The Territorial Friend and The Pollyanna Defense

Dear Captain Awkward, Three years ago I picked a new flatmate from a bunch of randoms-off-the-internet and this person turned into one of my besties. Even better, she had a bunch of wicked-cool friends who are now my friends as

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#444: “Do we hug? Because my feeling is that no, we don’t.”

Hi Captain Awkward! I have a social situation question: What do you do if you don’t want to hug someone, but they want to hug you? This has happened to me about three times in the past 6 months, all

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#443: Ending the reign of FEELINGSTERROR (slight edit)

Morning, Dear Captain: I have a friend who I suspect is battling some pretty severe anxiety/depression problems. It makes her extremely defensive and difficult to be around, because literally anything you say can trigger FEELINGSBOMBS packed with rusty nails of

Posted in Friendship, how to say no, manipulation, Reader Questions, Social Interactions, Social Media
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