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#481: My parents acquired a friend for me (with a gross, moldy congealed side of stalking).

Dear Captain Awkward, My problem boils down to this: can I say no, or do I have to be polite?  I’m not a social person. I don’t have friends at the moment. The reasons for that are many –mostly boiling down to

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Posted in Families, Friendship, Geek Social Fallacies, manipulation, Manners, Parents, Personal Safety, Reader Questions, rejection, saying no, Social Interactions, the gift of fear

#480: Post-breakup friend custody with a gross congealed moldy side of stalking

Hi Captain! I’m having a bit of a boundary issue. About six months ago, I ended a one-year relationship that had become deeply dysfunctional. My boyfriend at the time was very depressed, was using drugs, and was by turns distant

Posted in Abuse, Darth Vader Boyfriend, Dating, Friendship, manipulation, Personal Safety, Reader Questions, saying no, Social Interactions, Social Media, the gift of fear

#479: Trying to be more social when you have serious dietary restrictions

Dear Captain, I’m in a very happy long term relationship. The biggest problem we face is we’re both introverts, and have some social anxiety along with it. It’s hard to make friends, but we’re trying. We’re very geeky, so we’re

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Posted in Manners, Meetups, Personal Safety, Reader Questions, Social Interactions

#477: I have anxiety that women will have anxiety about me approaching them.

Comments are now closed on this discussion. I am leaving this answer (& discussion) here – don’t believe in erasing mistakes or pretending they didn’t happen. But putting it behind a cut-tag for sure.  For a better answer to this

Posted in Feminism, How Not To Be, Overthinking It, Personal Safety, Reader Questions

Guest Post! What to expect when you call a helpline/hotline.

Back when we changed the format for submitting questions, I strongly encouraged people who were currently experiencing a crisis to call a hotline or helpline and talk to a friendly person rather than wait for me to sort through the

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#446 and #447: Aging, family, and boundaries

Dear Captain Awkward: I’m having a bit of trouble with my parents. To start off with, I’m in my mid-40s and have been living on my own since I was 19. My parents are in their late 60s. They’re both

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Posted in Families, Manners, Mental Health, Parents, Personal Safety, Reader Questions

#440: “It’s time to get out of my abusive home, but I am afraid to accept help.”

Ahoy thar. Cliff notes time! Over the past four years, I: – dropped out of high school for Multiple Reasons – got a fantastic very-part-time clerical job which, although I don’t **LOVE** it 24/7, has great co-workers and doesn’t take

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Posted in Abuse, Families, Feminism, Mental Health, Personal Safety, Reader Questions

#434: Just me and my shadow, trying to network.

Hi Captain Awkward, A few months ago, I met a guy who works in my field through a professional networking event. Since then, I have noticed that he has such a brutal case of White Knight Syndrome that he will

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Posted in How Not To Be, how to say no, manipulation, Manners, Personal Safety, Reader Questions, rejection, saying no, the gift of fear

#426 & #427: E-blasts from the past.

Hey Captain Awkward, I am the LW of the “how do I break up with my mean ex who scares me?” Recently I have received harassing emails and blog comments from his new girlfriend telling me I am a liar and a bunch

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Posted in Abuse, manipulation, Manners, Mental Health, Personal Safety, Reader Questions, Relationships, saying no, the gift of fear

#419: My friend’s jokes are The Worst. Also, why do we talk about ending friendships forever so much on this blog?

Dear Captain Awkward: I have a friend who makes rape jokes and other sexual jokes that make me uncomfortable. I’ve repeatedly asked him to stop, and he still says this kind of stuff. Also, he touches my arm when we

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Posted in Culture, Feminism, Friendship, Geek Social Fallacies, how to say no, Manners, Personal Safety, Reader Questions, saying no
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