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#482: Sexy drunk texts vs. sober rejection: I don’t know what to believe!

Hi Captain: There is this totally awesome and beautiful girl in some of my graduate classes. I sat next to her and before I knew it we started texting a lot and it looked like it was leading to something

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#481: My parents acquired a friend for me (with a gross, moldy congealed side of stalking).

Dear Captain Awkward, My problem boils down to this: can I say no, or do I have to be polite?  I’m not a social person. I don’t have friends at the moment. The reasons for that are many –mostly boiling down to

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Posted in Families, Friendship, Geek Social Fallacies, manipulation, Manners, Parents, Personal Safety, Reader Questions, rejection, saying no, Social Interactions, the gift of fear

#479: Trying to be more social when you have serious dietary restrictions

Dear Captain, I’m in a very happy long term relationship. The biggest problem we face is we’re both introverts, and have some social anxiety along with it. It’s hard to make friends, but we’re trying. We’re very geeky, so we’re

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Posted in Manners, Meetups, Personal Safety, Reader Questions, Social Interactions

#478: RSVP/Invitation Etiquette

Cap’n!  I have a question about RSVP etiquette and other people’s family drama. Two other friends (A and B) and I are throwing a baby shower for a third friend (C). We’re inviting friends and any of C’s extended family

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Posted in Manners, Parents, Reader Questions, Social Interactions

#474: How do I get my coworker to shut up?

Dear Captain Awkward, I need advice on how to tell a work friend politely to just shut up.  He’s a very nice guy – super friendly and sociable, which is kind of the problem. You see, he is WAY too

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Posted in Culture, Manners, Reader Questions, Work

#470, #471 and #472: Correcting Names

Dear Person, My friends have gotten into the habit of calling me by a nickname, which would be wonderful if they had asked first, but otherwise I’m okay with it. The problem comes when they introduce me to people using

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#468 and #469: “Hey, knock it off”, or, Constructive Conflict, Continued.

Jolly’s great comment to Monday’s post is going to be very relevant to these seemingly very different questions: “You also don’t necessarily have to bring some of these things up in one big confrontation about The Whole Pattern Of Her

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Posted in Friendship, Geek Social Fallacies, How Not To Be, how to say no, manipulation, Manners, Overthinking It, Reader Questions, rejection, Relationships, Roommates, saying no, Social Interactions

#466: Possessive friend is weirding me out/A constructive conflict review.

Dear Captain Awkward, My friend N alternately acts like she feels threatened by me and like she wants to be me. It’s really creepy but I don’t know how to address it without sounding jealous and paranoid. I met her

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#463: Help me stop being mean.

Dear Captain Awkward: I am trying to not make this question sound like a pity party, but will probably slip up somewhere. Apologies in advance and gratefulness for making this the space you do. I feel like I am just

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Posted in Feminism, Friendship, Geek Social Fallacies, Manners, Mental Health, Reader Questions

#460: Boundaries are good, even if other people don’t enjoy it when you set them.

This is a very smart post on moving on and setting boundaries with an ex from Jenn Vicious at In Our Words: “There’s this thing that sometimes happens when people break up but still care about each other: they want

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Posted in manipulation, Manners, Reader Questions, saying no
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