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#482: Sexy drunk texts vs. sober rejection: I don’t know what to believe!

Hi Captain: There is this totally awesome and beautiful girl in some of my graduate classes. I sat next to her and before I knew it we started texting a lot and it looked like it was leading to something

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#481: My parents acquired a friend for me (with a gross, moldy congealed side of stalking).

Dear Captain Awkward, My problem boils down to this: can I say no, or do I have to be polite?  I’m not a social person. I don’t have friends at the moment. The reasons for that are many –mostly boiling down to

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Posted in Families, Friendship, Geek Social Fallacies, manipulation, Manners, Parents, Personal Safety, Reader Questions, rejection, saying no, Social Interactions, the gift of fear

#480: Post-breakup friend custody with a gross congealed moldy side of stalking

Hi Captain! I’m having a bit of a boundary issue. About six months ago, I ended a one-year relationship that had become deeply dysfunctional. My boyfriend at the time was very depressed, was using drugs, and was by turns distant

Posted in Abuse, Darth Vader Boyfriend, Dating, Friendship, manipulation, Personal Safety, Reader Questions, saying no, Social Interactions, Social Media, the gift of fear

#475: How do I help my lonely husband make some friends? and #476: Tired of the same old college scene

Dear Captain Awkward, Over the last four years, my husband and I have narrowed our social circle to where we only have a few friends who we see regularly, most of whom were initially my friends rather than his. But

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Posted in Friendship, Overthinking It, Reader Questions, Social Interactions

#470, #471 and #472: Correcting Names

Dear Person, My friends have gotten into the habit of calling me by a nickname, which would be wonderful if they had asked first, but otherwise I’m okay with it. The problem comes when they introduce me to people using

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#468 and #469: “Hey, knock it off”, or, Constructive Conflict, Continued.

Jolly’s great comment to Monday’s post is going to be very relevant to these seemingly very different questions: “You also don’t necessarily have to bring some of these things up in one big confrontation about The Whole Pattern Of Her

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Posted in Friendship, Geek Social Fallacies, How Not To Be, how to say no, manipulation, Manners, Overthinking It, Reader Questions, rejection, Relationships, Roommates, saying no, Social Interactions

#466: Possessive friend is weirding me out/A constructive conflict review.

Dear Captain Awkward, My friend N alternately acts like she feels threatened by me and like she wants to be me. It’s really creepy but I don’t know how to address it without sounding jealous and paranoid. I met her

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#463: Help me stop being mean.

Dear Captain Awkward: I am trying to not make this question sound like a pity party, but will probably slip up somewhere. Apologies in advance and gratefulness for making this the space you do. I feel like I am just

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Posted in Feminism, Friendship, Geek Social Fallacies, Manners, Mental Health, Reader Questions

#454: Darth Vader is a tricksy hobbit.

Hello, Citizens of Friday. First order of business, this great nod of solidarity for the socially awkward from Dorothy Parker. ‎”Those who have mastered etiquette, who are entirely, impeccably right, would seem to arrive at a point of exquisite dullness.”

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#446: The Territorial Friend and The Pollyanna Defense

Dear Captain Awkward, Three years ago I picked a new flatmate from a bunch of randoms-off-the-internet and this person turned into one of my besties. Even better, she had a bunch of wicked-cool friends who are now my friends as

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