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#371: “How do I end this misery?”

Dear Captain Awkward: About ten months ago, I started a relationship (a really-long-distance relationship with someone I met on a website). At first, and I have to be honest here, I was just fooling around, I couldn’t believe that you

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Posted in Abuse, bad internet dating, forced teaming, manipulation, Mental Health, Personal Safety, Reader Questions, rejection, Relationships, saying no, the gift of fear

Linky Links of Linkyness

Lindy West reacts to a new book by the authors of The Rules with the correct amount of “What the everloving fuck?” (h/t Bitches Gotta Eat) “So, essentially (according to these jokers), online dating is a forum where you put

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Posted in bad internet dating, Culture, Feminism, Inspiring, Quotes, Rants

#235: Variations on a Theme, or, A Gamer Girl Needs Help

Dear Captain Awkward, I am a gamer girl who is currently obsessed with the game, Gears of War 3. I am geeky but reasonably cute with an average body. I’ve also only dated one guy who turned out to be

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#229: You must chill (online dating edition).

Dear Captain Awkward, I’m a serially-single female in my mid-20s who has only been in two relationships. The first was when I was 20 and lasted seven months and the other was a on-and-off disaster that ended a few months

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#203: Scripts for saying “It was nice to meet you! But not THAT nice.”

Dear Captain Awkward, I am making forays into online dating, and it is Awkward. Mostly it is Awkward because I am one of those people who can tell within the first few minutes whether or not someone does or could

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Reader question #61: My long distance girlfriend avoids me whenever I make it to town for a visit. Should I take this personally?

Dear Captain Awkward, I started dating a woman late last year, but shortly afterward economic circumstances forced me to move to a town a couple hours away. We’ve been doing the long distance thing ever since, and it’s been going

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The art of “no,” continued: Saying no when you’ve already said yes.

A reader responded to yesterday’s post with this story: …I was sitting around at 3am reading blogs when some guy knocked on my window, since mine was the only light on in the street–he’d locked his keys in his car,

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Posted in bad internet dating, Personal Safety
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