Monthly Archives: January 2013

#439: The dynamic duo of mansplainers

Dear Captain Awkward: This should be a quickie, at least to ask. I have two friends (they’re dating) who constantly argue with me about the field I’m studying in graduate school. They challenge my knowledge about it, and honestly about

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#438: You get to choose your own happiness.

Dear Captain Awkward: Hey. I have done some bad things. I need to tell you about it so you can help me figure out how to not do bad things ever again.I started dating this guy two years ago, my

Posted in Captain Awkward's Dating Guide for Geeks, Dating, Mental Health, Reader Questions, Relationships

Can men and women be friends? An essay and a website launch.

February 5, 2013: Thanks for all the cool comments and discussion, but I can’t keep up with the moderation demands right now. Comments on this entry are now closed. Yesterday I saw this Tweet.  The piece linked there asks the

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#437: Adulthood Is A Scary Horse

Ahoy there, I have this general problem. I am almost 30, and I am not a grown-up person. I am a college drop out, have never had a ‘real’ job. I’m working for almost 3 years now at a job

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#437: Out of the frying pan, into the adjacent teakettle of badness.

Oh Captain, my Captain! I need some help. Last year, I was in an abusive relationship. My ex raped me repeatedly and often manipulated me. When we were together, I became close friends with another guy. Guy #2 eventually owned

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#436: What can I do to get to know my coworkers better?

O Mighty Captain of Scripts for the Awkward, I consider myself to be fairly socially skilled, if introverted, but one place where I’m completely socially awkward is at work. I’m the person who gets skewered by all the career advice

Posted in Manners, Overthinking It, Reader Questions, Work

#435: Getting the silent treatment for an honest mistake.

Dear Captain Awkward: Quick backstory: my mom and stepdad babysit my daughter for free one afternoon a week while I work (I telecommute the rest of the time). My mother offered to do it right after my daughter was born

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London Meetup, Northwestern Talk, and Kink-Friendly Advice

Hello, I am back from my Forth Worth/Amarillo vacation. I can tell you that North Main BBQ in Euless is LEGIT, you Texans are really onto something with that whole Bluebell ice cream thing, and that it is as fun

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#434: Just me and my shadow, trying to network.

Hi Captain Awkward, A few months ago, I met a guy who works in my field through a professional networking event. Since then, I have noticed that he has such a brutal case of White Knight Syndrome that he will

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Posted in How Not To Be, how to say no, manipulation, Manners, Personal Safety, Reader Questions, rejection, saying no, the gift of fear

#433: What if my past as a sex worker hurts my current employment chances?

Hello CA, I am finishing up a PhD in the social sciences, and will be on the academic job market soon. I really want to teach more than anything, either at the university or high school level.  I need advice

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