Monthly Archives: October 2012

Hiatus

Please don’t send any new questions until after November 7. I’m altering the way I process questions, and it will be to your benefit to wait. Thank you!     About these ads

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Western Mass & Philly Meetups

I just fished these out of my inbox. Neat. Unfortunately, I will not (seriously) be checking email until after Nov. 7, so hold off on scheduling meetups until after then, or use Twitter, or semaphore.   Hello, Captain! This is

Posted in Meetups

Hiatus, Holiday Open Thread, & #389: Friendly Social Coercion is Still Coercion

Hello! I have a backlog of something like 300 unanswered questions in my inbox. I also have some travel, work deadlines, and life stuff that mean I will not be posting here or checking blog-related email until early November. I

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Posted in Families, Manners, Reader Questions, Roommates, saying no

#388: Please let me go.

Dear Captain Awkward, I have decided to end my 4-year relationship with my boyfriend. Throughout the last 4 years, despite my best efforts to convince myself, I have never been truly passionate and enthusiastic about this relationship, though we’ve definitely

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#387: The coffee made me do it.

Hi Captain Awkward,

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#386: Facing down a predator.

Behind a cut for discussions of sexual abuse.

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Posted in Abuse, Families, manipulation, Mental Health, Parents, Personal Safety, predators, Reader Questions, the gift of fear

#385: My ex-friend and his bullshit lies.

Hey Captain Awkward… So! I used to be BFF with this guy. I eventually ended things after it took a turn for the weird – he became incredibly demanding of my time and attention and started telling me things that, frankly, freaked me

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#383 & #384: Ladyboners

Dear Team Awwkard, Ok so here it is: I’m back at university after having to take time out due to depression and a very bad reaction to meds last year. I have a feeling that the depression was in a

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Posted in Captain Awkward's Dating Guide for Geeks, Dating, Overthinking It, Reader Questions, Sex, Work

#382: My sister probably isn’t coming home for Thanksgiving. How do I tell her how hurt I am?

Hi Captain Awkward, So here’s my situation (long, apologies): I have one younger sister who I see pretty infrequently, as I live on the East Coast and she attends school in the Midwest (our hometown is also in the Midwest).

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#381: How do I tell my sad friend I’m getting engaged?

Dear Captain Awkward, So, this friend is someone I’ve known for nearly a decade. We went to college together, we were roommates during and after college together, we’ve collaborated on work together, we hang out weekly, we have certain holidays

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Posted in Friendship, manipulation, Manners, Mental Health, Overthinking It, Reader Questions, Relationships
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