As you know, WordPress lets me see what people typed into Google to find this place. Sometimes these things are hilarious and awesome, like “sex on second date and i am not sorry.” Why would you be sorry, anonymous internet searcher? Go get you some.
However, tonight it was “boyfriend threatening rape if i dont have sex.”
Listen, if you’re out there, and you typed those words into a search engine, there is some stuff I need you to hear right now.
1. That guy is not your boyfriend. He is some asshole you used to date. Do you understand? He does not love you, he is not good to you, he does not deserve you, he does not get to touch you, you don’t have to spend one more second with him. There is no universe where that is okay. Actually threatening to rape someone in order to make them have sex with you counts…as rape. That guy is a heinous raping fucktard.
2. Get out of whatever building he is in and into a safe place now. Your family. Your friends. A hotel. Your RA, if you’re in college. Go somewhere that he is not.
Be safe. You do not deserve to be treated like this. Please find help.